Sunday, January 11, 2009

Learning patience, love, and resetting myself internally: A Week in Shimla

Wow! What a week! I have learned so much about myself it's not even funny. I spent the week....hmmmm...learning to breathe, learning to meditate, and learning self-love and happiness. Sounds a bit crazy right? Learning how to breathe, etc etc. But I feel like I can REALLY breathe now, so freely and easily, I'm so light...it feels like 10 kg of weight has been lifted from my shoulders. And just happiness...I think just the pace of life in Canada was getting me down and negative at times, never feeling like I had time for anything or anyone. All that has changed. I know what I need to do and keep doing in order to keep this feeling of vitality and energy with me.

I feel like this past week was the purpose behind my whole trip. Yeah, I've seen and done many things over the past month but I know that this week was the most important, the sole purpose of being here, and a huge changing point in my life.

I was lucky enough to meet a man called Gajender in Shimla on my last evening here before flying to Nepal. He said he could see my negativity in front of me and that he has helped others in the past and could help me as well. He showed me many letters from other foreigners who he's helped (like 60 nationalities!) and I suppose it won me over. I couldn't get the meeting or this man out of my head for my weeks of travel and knew I had to return.

And...it was hard knowing that i'd be in the same place for a week, a place I'd already seen and explored, a place that was cold (highs of about 10) when I could have been on the beaches of Goa basking in the sun. But it was absolutely the right thing to do and I'm forever grateful to this place and this man and everyone in this wonderful country.

I'm leaving for the chaos of Delhi today and then Wed to Mumbai for the final few days of my trip. I haven't been running but know that the marathon will go well, I have such a mental strength now that outweighs the fact that I haven't been running.

Anyways, thought I should update...looking forward to seeing and talking to you all again in ONE WEEK!! AAAhhhhh!! :)

Friday, January 2, 2009

Most Magical New Years Yet!

Happy New Years!!! All the best in 2009 everybody!

I rang in the New Year with thousands of Sikhs at the Golden Temple in Amritsar, India. It definitely goes down in my books at the most magical New Years yet. My train from Agra to Amritsar was late (well and initially I hopped on the wrong one! but got it sorted out and got on the right one shortly afterwards). It was about a 14 hour journey...but it was worth it...I arrived at about 10:30 pm and was lucky enough to get a room at the "Lucky" hotel in Amritsar...EVERYTHING was booked solid...many Sikhs throughout India come here for New Years...but they just let me use this room that they were doing a bit of construction on (i.e. no windows...it was LOUD on NYrs night!). I made it to the golden temple complex at about 11:30 pm and not realizing that I was right there, saw a stall selling hot milk tea (VERY VERY yummy...with ginger and cardamom) and biscuits. It's cold here and I go right to the stall and ask "how much?" "No no no! It's Free!" They say. Then realize I'm at the Golden Temple Complex. There are entries from all 4 sides of the complex, indicating that ANYBODY, any religion, any colour, class, creed, whatever...is welcome. The Golden Temple is extremely efficient...they have shoe stalls with boxes (you get a coin sized piece of metal with your number on it) to leave your shoes then walk barefoot into the complex. There is a 24 hour cafeteria free to all and again open to absolutely anybody.

Once inside, the golden temple is all lit up and it's just packed full of Sikhs, thousands of them. I see a few foreigners as well...4 or so...but pretty much we're a novelty. All sorts of people come up and shake my hand "Happy New Year" "Happy New Year." They chant something like "Bole Sohn Nahal, Sat Sri Akal." Meaning something like "Happiness to you, you're welcome." Somebody tried to explain that before I went in.

Just after midnight, they hand out more food...paranthas...deep fried toast basically. There wasn't really a countdown, but fireworks were let off sporatically through the night...from 11:30 til 12:30 or so. No big displays.

Love Amritsar though, I am getting even more attention here, not sure why there are so few foreigners, it's a really amazing place. But everybody either wants their pic with me or wants me to take their pic... :) They're hilarious. Most everyone is extremely kind and helpful, I have several addresses and phone numbers of places and people to stay with if I ever have the time.

Will try to get some pics uploaded soon...headed to Chandigarh tomorrow though.

Happy New Year!!!